How to become a better speaker

We learn from our mistakes.
It’s been a hard lesson to learn, but I’m learning.
Mistakes are not failures.
Difficulties are not the end.
A speech that challenges in some way is not a reason to give up speaking.
Every time there is a difficulty, it is not the end but a sign post.
It is an indicator that something needs to be altered to avoid that difficulty next time, and therefore become a better speaker.
Are you nervous, perhaps to the point of not speaking at all? Then look at those nerves and see how they may be changed.
Did you not get the results you hoped for?
Did you have a difficulty with the equipment?
Did you have difficulty with the audience response?
There are a myriad of issues we face when we speak, but each one is a sign post to improvement, a trigger to open our eyes to how we can be better and to open our hearts so that we understand and forgive ourselves and better serve our audiences.
[Note to self – and you if you happen to be in the vicinity] Next time you find me beating myself up over some error/mistake/failure, please will you just remind me of the wonderful improvements that lie ahead for me. Thank you!